How does one succeed in life?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

I'm a 28-year-old guy who has never been in a relationship, nor can I seem to find someone who wants to be in one with me. Why do I feel like a freak?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

How do the police verify the authenticity of an online profile? What methods do they use to determine if a profile is real or fake?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

One day, I happened to walk past where my crush was with friends. Then all of a sudden they start laughing, and someone maybe him, goes "freaking (my name) with her freaking hair!" Can anyone offer insights into this? We're in middle school.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Why does my dog keep licking at her privates now? She is 7 years old and has barely started licking there. The vet said she’s fine but she keeps doing that.

What I need from you?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Ask yourself:

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Why does a college girl cover her face with a scarf in Bangalore?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

When British people write X after everything, are they being serious or trying not to be awkward?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why have Indian girls almost stopped wearing sarees?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Why do women wear less clothes compared to men?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Is Tinder the best dating app?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Does not procrastinate.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Procrastinates a lot.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

That's it for today.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.